Wednesday 10th March 2010
Phoned and cancelled the tea time carer for Monday 15th as mum has a hospital appointment.
Had to phone Russett homes again to sort out the outstanding bill for the extra lifeline pendant that mum had mislaid, this should be paid straight out of mums bank account, I was told that this would be sorted today
Had a phone call from Daph to say that mum had been over to them and asked them what time are they coming..after a while Daph realised she meant her appointment on Monday to see Dr Asprey. She was very confused and said she was going up to see her friends Lil and Freda, Daph said that the best thing was for her to phone them and see if they were in, which she did and they weren't in so Daph suggested that she stayed with them for a cup of tea and would ring them again later, Mum said that they were probably at their club, (The Friendship club) she said that she would like to go there too. When Daph phoned later they still weren't in, but mum insisted that she wanted to go up to the shop anyway as she needed some shopping, when she asked mum what she needed she said 'new glasses' Daph told her that she couldn't just go in and buy them.
She had lost her glasses so though that she would get new one while up the shop, her glasses were found in her purse, She insisted that she needed shopping even though I had done her shopping the day before, she also complained that she was bored and was fed up with just sitting in there...meaning her house. She told Daph that she would like to go to the Friendship club as it would be better that up there...meaning Bowles day care centre..The Friendship club is once a fortnight on a Wednesday in the afternoon..
Thursday 11th March
On the way down to mums we saw Daph who flagged us down and told us that she was just going up to mums friend Bett to pick up mums handbag as she had left it there on Wednesday,
When we got to mums she opened the door and the first thing she said was 'have you got my thingy? You know my whotsit' I asked her if she meant her handbag and she said 'Yes that's it' I told her that she had left it at Bett's and that Daph was on her way up to get it for her.
Mum complained that she didn't have any money, John looked in her pot in the cabinet where we had left £20 and that had gone. John gave her the £20 that we had saved from her money and she sat clucking it in her hand. When she got her handbag back we found her purse,which had quite a lot of change in it and we also put the £20 in it.
She had lost here glasses yet again, we looked everywhere for them and couldn't find them but we were sure that they would turn up.
I talked over mum going to the Friendship club with Daph and we both thought that it would be a good idea for her to go as she has lots of friends that go there
Saturday 15th March
Mum was very bright when we got over to her, her back door was unlocked but she the wrong keys in the back door leading into the garden, she didn't want to go out but did ask me if I could help her have a bath, I also collected the washing that was laying around the house and put it into the machine, she had found her glasses.
She got a little confused and we didn't quite get what she was trying to tell us but she was looking at the armchairs and sofa and said 'there are 3 there, there, and there!!!'
I reminded her that we were going to see Dr Asprey on Monday she said already I thought that it was a long time yet. I told her that I would go over early and help her get ready
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