Thursday 20th May 2010
Had an early phone call from Andrew to say that Dib had been taken into the Conquest with a suspected heart attack ( thankfully it turned out to be vertigo).
We decided to go over and tell mum about Dib instead of telling her on the phone, we went over just after 9am and brought her back here for the day, she sat in the garden for a while and then she went in and sat and watched the TV, she had some lunch with us and we took her home just after 3pm, she was very muddly and confused but well in herself.
Pete came over when we got back and he was able to reassure her that Dib was OK ( she kept getting confused and saying that it was her brother Charlie who was in hospital)
Saturday 22nd May 2010
Phone call from carer to say that she couldn’t find mums lifeline, I told her where we kept mums spare one. Mum spoke to me although she called me Teresa, she asked me if we were going over today, I told her not today. I reminded her that Teresa had been over yesterday and she said ‘Oh yes, he picked me up and do you know what happened!’ I told her no, I didn’t know, she said ‘well I better find out then!’
I told her that we would be over to see her soon.
Daph and Dib popped in for coffee and they said that mum had been very confused when they last saw her. I phoned D later on in the day to see if Dib was OK and she said that mum had been over to see if Char was ok! She ended up staying with them for lunch and she took her home about 3pm
Sunday 23rd May 2010
Michael phoned me to ask if we were taking mum out today as he thought that he would invite mum over to his house later. I said that she would really love that, he said that he would phone her first before going over, I told him that she wasn’t going over to D & D’s for lunch today as they were going out for lunch, so that would be really good.
Michael said that we should go and see some more care homes, I text Daph to say that Michael was going to invite mum over just incase mum goes over to them before they go out, she said that mum had already been over! She also said that Dib wanted to have a word with Michael about mum and she would phone him to see if he would go into them before picking mum up.
Monday 24th May 2010
Phoned mum she had just woken up so she was even more confused, she told me that she went to Michaels yesterday and they were all there (I think that she meant Teresa, Linda, Lissa and Family) she said that she had a nice time, but she was really tired.
She told me that she had been up to the shops this morning and she couldn’t remember how to get home, then she said ‘No, she had asked someone’ but when I said to her, you couldn’t find your way home then, she said ‘Of course I could’ . After a while I think that what she meant was that she went to the shop and she couldn’t find her purse and had forgotten to take it with her. She told me she had found it but there wasn’t much money in it, she said ‘but never mind, I’ll bring the bags tomorrow!’ I told her that never mind I will bring the bags tomorrow so that we can go shopping. Yes she said that’s it .
She said to me that it was my day yesterday and that she should have come to me, I told her no it wasn’t the day that I come over and it was nice for her to go to Michaels.
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