Monday 11th October 2010
I had a
phone call from Daphne at the care home to say that mum had a fall and that she
was at the A & E at William Harvey Hospital, Ashford, she had gone in an
ambulance. I phoned Michael to get him to
go to the hospital and be with her in A & E, he phoned back and said that
she had a black eye, she said that her knee had given way and she had lost her balance,
they took an x-ray of her knee, they think that she may had a cyst behind her
knee, they advised that she be checked by the GP in case she had a black out,
she must keep her leg elevated, they told Michael that she would go back to the
home by ambulance and that he needn’t stay with her.
I phoned
Daphne after about an hour and she said that mum wasn’t back and she thought
that Michael would have brought her back to the care home as hospital transport
takes ages to arrange, I phoned Daphne back and asked if it would be possible
to arrange for a taxi to pick mum up and the cost charged to mums account, she
said she thought that could be arranged and would have a word with the office.
Michael
phoned later in the evening and said that the care home had phoned him and said
that mum had a water infection and they are getting the GP to see her tomorrow.
Tuesday 12th October 2010
We picked
mums friend Bett up and took her in with us to see mum, spoke to Daphne about
mum as the GP had just left and she said that he couldn’t find anything wrong
but he had taken her off her blood pressure tablets and her blood pressure was
fine. He has given her stronger
antibiotics to sort out her water infection.
I gave
Daphne the appointment card and information from the eye clinic, she said that
she would give it to the GP for referral to William Harvey.
Mum looked
well apart from two black eyes, which they thought may have been partly caused
by her glasses digging into her face when she fell, her knee just had a small
bruise and was slightly swollen, the carer has taken her stick away as she must
now use the walking frame (she has to be assessed by the physio before she gets
one of her own!). She had trouble grasping how to use it. She doesn’t remember
anything about the ambulance or the hospital
She was
very pleased to see Bett, Bett took in a
photo of mum with all the ladies from
the British Legion she was quite interested in that but unable to say who they
were. While we were there the carer came over and said that they thought it
would be a good idea to change mums room round and put the bed against the wall
instead of the middle of the room as they thought that she may have shuffled
around the bed and tripped, we thought that was a really good idea. The maintenance
man had changed her room around before we left and we thought that it looked so
much better and gave her so much more space to move about in, he also measured
up to put mums clock and pictures on the wall which he said he would do
tomorrow.
The carer
told us that this afternoon they were going to sit mum in the lounge with her
foot elevated while she watches the entertainment. We caught Daphne and asked
if the meeting with Social Services was still on for the 19th and
she said that yes she thought that it was.
I told her that we still hadn’t had any correspondence from Sharon Hale
at Social Services. Left some money in
the office for mums ‘pocket money’
Phoned Teresa
and passed on info also phoned Linda for her to tell Michael
Wednesday 13th October
As we hadn’t
heard anything from Social Services regarding the meeting on the 19th
I phoned them and was told that Sharon Hale was on holiday, they looked in her
diary and they told me that she hadn’t written anything in there about the
meeting at the care home, they looked through her phone messages and said that
there was one on the 28th September for her to phone care home!. I told them that we all needed to know if the
meeting was on or not, they told me that they would e-mail Sharon Hale and get
her to phone me tomorrow. They told me
that it was not like Sharon to not inform them or write in her
diary of any meetings
Michael
dropped in the keys for mum’s house so that we could take them to the housing
association on Friday.
Thursday 14th October
Sharon Hale
phoned to say that the meeting was on for the 19th and that she DID
have it marked in her diary! She said that she had asked the care home to advise
us. I said that I thought that we would
have been advised in writing by Social Services.
Text Teresa
and told her we would pick her u at 9.45am she said could we pick her up from
work
Friday 15th October
We took the
keys into the housing association and got a receipt for the keys